IS THIS IT?
Finding Your Purpose
WHAT AM I DOING WITH MY LIFE?
When you think about your life, do you keep wondering: Is this it?
As a coaching psychologist and consultant, I hear this question, or a version of it, all the time. Chances are, if you are asking yourself the same question, you have woken up to find yourself in one of the following scenarios:
1. You feel stuck in a job you hate.
2. You're in a relationship you no longer want.
3. Your life is so far from the one you imagined it really isn't funny.
4. You are tired of feeling like you have no control.
5. You know something is missing but you aren't sure what it is.
If any of the above resonate with how you're feeling, don't worry. There are MILLIONS of people out there who feel stuck or unfulfilled in their personal or work life. The thing is, most of them DO NOTHING ABOUT IT!
But you're here, so already you are different to them!
WHY DO I FEEL LIKE THIS?
If you relate to any of the above scenarios, you are probably feeling;
confused about what to do;
scared to make a change;
overwhelmed by your options;
anxious about making the wrong choice;
regret about missed opportunities;
distraught at the though of upsetting someone.
Or, maybe you don't feel unhappy or lost, you've just realised you want something more from life. Maybe something new and different, and you just need some help figuring out how to achieve it.
Remember, these feelings are all perfectly normal and valid. Going through any life change brings challenges and uncertainty, but ultimately taking decisive action and facing them head on will bring you closer to your goal.
Having a coach is a bit like having your own personal cheerleader; encouraging, supporting and committed to you and your evolution.
We listen without judgment and reflect what you say, opening your mind to your strengths, blind spots and thought traps; which enables you to build effective strategies to achieve your goals and make positive changes in your life.
You see, you deserve to be happy. We all do! We should all feel energised by what we do, love our lives (most of the time – because you know, ironing…) and understand how we contribute our own little brand of happiness to the big blue world we call home.
It won’t be easy. Things that are meaningful never are. But it will be worth it.
If the thought of making big changes to your life frightens you, how much more frightened are you at the thought of feeling the same way in a years’ time if you do nothing? Or in 5 years? Or 10 years?
The time for action is NOW.
WHAT DOES THE PROGRAM LOOK LIKE?
'Is This It?' is an intensive 12 week* one-to-one (or group) personal coaching program that helps you explore your personal strengths and values; to re-discover yourself and re-connect with your hidden dreams.
The program is grounded in research-based positive psychology and is carefully designed to enable you to find your ‘ikigai’ or purpose in life and achieve greater happiness and life-satisfaction.
It comprises three 4-week units:
Each unit includes:
*The program can be spread out over 6 months or a year at request. Contact me to discuss.
**Limited to work hours. Not intended to replace coaching sessions; questions and queries only. Excludes times pre-booked by other clients.
HOW I CAN HELP
I’ll be there to hold your metaphorical hand (social distancing rules you see!) and gently walk you through the steps you need to take to:
Energise your mind, body and spirit by using wellbeing and self-care strategies that work for you
Celebrate your talents, gifts and flaws, and learn to use them to your advantage
Understand your strengths and how you bring value to others
Find out what lights you up, what you love and what you believe in
Build the courage and resilience to overcome the limiting beliefs that are holding you back
Reframe negative thought patterns and build the confidence to step outside your comfort zone and chase your dreams
Recognise the gifts and talents that you can be paid for
Discover the daily rituals and habits that help you get there in flow
Experience deep, inner transformation and discover the impact you were meant to make in this world
Recognise the power of Progress, not Perfection!
So, if you are sick of feeling unfulfilled, like nothing you do matters, or that no-one cares about you or your contribution to the world, then I can help you stop living for your holidays, step outside your comfort zone, discover what lights you up, and start you on the path to living a happy, meaningful life ALL YEAR ROUND.
Feeling like it's a yes to all the above?
Ready to sign up?
Well, coaching isn't for everyone, and requires time and dedication.
So, one last check; this package is for you, if you:
Feel like you are ready to take control of your life and your career
Believe that self-awareness is the foundation for changing the world
Understand the value of commitment and accountability
Are willing to take powerful action each week
Are ready to make the mindset shifts necessary to start living your purpose
Feel ready to tackle your inner critic and confront your fears of failure
Feel committed to bring genuine challenges to coaching sessions
Are committed to embracing the rituals and habits necessary to live a rewarding, authentic, and positive life.
If the answer is HELL YES! Then you can sign up here:
If you're keen, but still not 100% sure, why not contact me and arrange a free 30 minute chemistry call. I would love to chat to you and help you work out if we will make a great team!
“There have been times, lately, when I dearly wished that I could change the past. Well, I can’t, but I can change the present, so that when it becomes the past it will turn out to be a past worth having.”